As a parent, everybody wants their child to grow up and but not get old. Yeah, there is a difference in growing and getting old. For an extended period, researchers have been performing studies to analyze the factors about how parents raise successful kids.
The study later showed that every child requires a different plan of raising. But common are five everyday tips which every parent must stick to bloom their kid successful.
1. You Raise Successful Kids With What You Are
To this point, W.E.B Dubois says, “kids learn from what their parents are instead what they teach them.” It is indeed 100 percent true because children are keen observers. They do what they see.
Their mind registers the parent’s activity very easily. So, if you are a good parent and want to raise kids successfully, you should be cautious in things you are performing in front of your children’s eye and ear. The example we set for our kids – how to act when things don’t go our way – is much, much more important than the rules you set for them,” says Leo Babauta. Your way of life should be teaching to the children, not explaining the scripted words.
2. Spend More Time Than Money To Raise Successful Kids
Kids turn out well with their parents’ compassion and company. They don’t need fancy gifts to realize the zest of life but parents’ time.
Adding to this statement, Abigail Van Buren also stated that “spend half of the money, but double the time if you want your kids to be raised successfully.” She made this statement addressing the parents brought to the University of Virginia states.
She further added that children brought up by sharing difficulties overcome by the parents have a great understanding of life. They achieve a remarkable place by understanding the fact that every penny that is spent has a worth.
The quality of the child’s growth depends on how well parents spend time on the children. A Research article from the Journal of psychology concludes a study as” Most of the child crime scene were performed by the children whose both parents were office goers.”
3. Let Them Fall Down
There are sometimes you need to be protective of falling. But, the overprotection of children as a savior by the parents is not always necessary. There are a few times that every parent should realize, let them fall. Be ready to fall cause only then you are prepared to succeed. If you protect the children from falling, they may not know how to raise when they fall in your absence. Help them in growing, don’t prevent every time from falling.
4. Restrict Screen Time
Prolonged exposure of the children to the tablets, Television, Pc, Mobile phones are highly dangerous for the brain. The American Pediatric Association states that every family with children should have media-free time together.
5. Provide Basement Of Faith
Children who are having faith doesn’t change for a while are more resistant to the changing world.
With the above five tips, raise your kids to be successful in their life.